Dangling is the next phase one may go through right after getting out of a major dwell mode. Simply, when one is in the dangle mode, they let go of their situation(s) often, but swing back and forth and do not keep consistency with their actions. Not everyone goes through this phase, however, I’ve found 98% of my clientele does. When I hear Spirit tell a client they need to let go of their situation(s) completely before they will receive anything positive, they mean it. Getting out of the dwell mode is extremely difficult, especially in matters of the heart.

Since it’s so difficult for most people to cut those negative emotional cords attaching themselves to their situations completely and consistently, they go through the dangle mode. Over half of the time, hard core dwellers are used to feeling miserable and the only way they still feel in control of their situation emotionally is to dangle a bit. People in the dangle mode are also in semi-denial. They understand that letting go is pertinent to their growth and the final outcome of their situation but still refuse to trust Spirit completely with their lives. They will tell themselves that they are letting go, but allow a day or more in between to "touch" on the person or situation’s energy. After doing this, they truly believe that a day, three days or a week can’t possibly hurt their bottom line and they couldn't be more incorrect.

When calling psychics, people in the dangle mode are more mischievous while getting readings. They claim to be letting go, yet they’re still finding a way to ask about the situation or person they were (or still are) dwelling on. They may call about another situation but always find a way to bring up the past situation at the end of the reading for their so-called "update". Quite honestly, those experiencing the dangle mode aren't ready to face their personal truth completely and utilize their inner strength to get through the letting go process without fighting it.

Here are the top simple ways to know if you’re in the dangle mode:

* You do let go for a few days straight then allow yourself a whole day (or more) in between to dwell.
* You believe that by thinking or worrying about the person/situation for a little while will not delay the bottom line.
* You tell yourself you’re not dwelling, but still insist on calling psychics about the same person or situation.
* You believe in the concept of dwelling but you find excuses not to trust completely.
* You let go for a little while, get a spiritual sign and then something "bad" happens.
* You still constantly pray for the person to come back or to have your situation resolved instead of trusting God.
* When you meditate, you’re still trying to get answers regarding your situation.
* Predictions that don’t have anything to do with your situation start happening within the timeframes given.
* You still find a way to hold on to hope when you are only making a half-hearted effort in letting go.

Consistency
Why is it important to be consistent with letting go? If you want any of your predictions to happen remotely on time, then obviously you want to get your butt in gear. Also, consistency shows God and Spirit that you’re ready for all the positive events coming up. If you’re not consistent, you’re telling them you still have doubts AND you’re not ready or willing to accept responsibility for your actions.

If you are focused on a relationship that has been inconsistent and emotionally draining, check to see what type of energy you're putting out there. If you aren't solid and stable with your thoughts and actions, then you cannot expect the other person to be. What you put out, you will get back.

Here’s a cute example of why being consistent is important in the physical world:

You’re trying to get a promotion at work. If your boss is seeing lack of consistency in your work and unreliability in your ethics, chances are he or she would be less likely to TRUST your dependability. He or she would definitely think you’re not ready to handle the responsibilities of the new position.

If you can’t keep the promises you've made to yourself and be accountable for your actions then you won’t reap the benefit of getting what you truly desire. If you are always making excuses or placing blame elsewhere, there is no way you will be clear and you aren't keeping the doors of grand opportunity open.

This is by far the most difficult phase to get through. The easiest road to completion is to make sure your desire for letting go doesn’t dwindle away. If that happens then you’ll be keeping yourself stuck in the most emotionally stagnate phase of the trilogy.

The next step is to continuously keep your faith in check. If you lose the faith and tell yourself you "can’t" complete this cycle then you absolutely won’t. Believe that all your efforts aren't in vain. If you create faith within yourself, you WILL see a positive result when it's in your highest good. If you need help, ask your guides and/or God for assistance. They will always be there for you when you need them.