So you call a really good psychic and they tell you to stop dwelling. What is dwelling? Does this change the outcome of psychic's predictions? Can I control this? Make me stop it!

Before we go any further, you need to know if you are in fact dwelling. Check out my top 10 ways to know.

10- You won't pull the positive out of your negative situation.
9- You allow your emotions to take over, forfeiting your power of choice.
8- You can't simply trust Spirit or your higher power.
7- You won't allow yourself (or the person/situation) to grow.
6- You let yourself go, get desperate, get sloppy and un-organized in your daily life.
5- You aren't accountable for your actions and expect psychics to "magically" make things happen.
4- You can't move on with your daily activities without thinking about the subject in question.
3- You go broke calling psychics.
2- You cast a spell to manipulate the situation.
1- You live your life based on psychic predictions.

Will dwelling change the outcome of predictions? The answer is YES. If a psychic gives you a prediction and you dwell on the outcome if can do one of two things; delay the timing in which the prediction would come to pass or make the prediction not happen at all. If you trust the Universe/Spirit, let go and stop dwelling, you then keeping the Spiritual Doors open to the possiblity of your prediction coming to fruition. You're not giving your power up to the situation or allowing yourself to get depressed and stagnate your life from progressing in your highest good.

How do I get out of this mess? Read my helpful tips below to find out!

NO SPIRITUAL CHOKING
I’ve said this to many clients, "You’re choking them and they can’t breathe"! What does this mean? When you are dwelling on a person and/or situation, you’re feeding them your energy. It’s the same as you eating a 3-course meal and your tummy is full. All you want to do is sleep there after. You have to wait for the food to settle before you can move on with the rest of your day. If you feed that person your energy, they are full and have no need to even think about you in the slightest. By doing this, you’re also choking them, not allowing them to breathe and progress with their transitional phases. They need this to reach the point when they’re in your highest good.

TRUSTING THE UNIVERSE AND/OR YOUR HIGHER POWER
By trusting, you are now giving up the outcome of your problem to the universe and/or your higher power to "take care" of everything. In releasing your anxiety and putting the problem on the back burner, you're helping things move faster, thus predictions will probably start coming true. If they DON'T happen, mostly likely it wasn't "in the cards".

KEEP YOURSELF BUSY
Try to move on with your life as if you know what you're doing, because you WILL. By keeping busy with your normal daily activities, you are now handing your problem(s) over to the universe and letting go. Do the things you love to do. Pamper yourself. Understand that you deserve the best that life can offer and accept the fact that you need to move on.

EXCERSIZE YOUR POWER OF CHOICE
When getting a reading, I highly suggest you use it for entertainment value. Yes, most of us are for REAL, but you shouldn't be making decisions for your daily life based on what we see for you. Take matters into your own hands, go with your gut feelings and take responsibility for your actions. We can manifest our lives to a certain degree, so why not try it?

DON'T CALL PSYCHICS CONSTANTLY
By calling a psychic, you're mixing your energy with theirs, creating a hole in your spirit. By calling a ton of psychics on a consistant basis, not grounding yourself and dwelling on the situation, your spirit will begin to turn into the ozone layer, not allowing yourself to be read at a later date. ICK! We are here to help you, not make you dependent on us. Again, take matters into your own hands, trust the universe (or higher power), excersize your free will and for the love of God, listen when we say LET GO!