Fear - Part I
I’ve been telling my clients for ages to alleviate all fear in order to progress to the next level. I had to do it and I’m still doing it. It’s not an easy task. You wouldn’t believe the amount of people who use their fears as an excuse to not take responsibility for their actions, thoughts and feelings. Fear holds us back from learning and being truly happy.
It's The Most Common Form Of Sabotage
Fear is one the most common negative reactions to an experience. It has the strongest command over choosing the direction
we take when it comes to desires in our waking life. For example, one may have no issue with entering a new romantic relationship, but may have
a foreboding mentality when it comes to marriage. They can exist in their current state without progressing to the next level due to their fear
of change and self-imposed premonition of failure.
By allowing fear to consume your thoughts, it will transform your energy to a negative
attraction device that will not only sabotage the good things you have now, but prevent future positive events from coming in.
Nothing will change in your life until you interrupt the fear-based cycle you’ve constructed for yourself. When you consistently fear, you’re not allowing yourself to complete the lessons you’ve agreed to in this lifetime. Furthermore, you’re not allowing other people to complete theirs.
Take a look around you. When all you do is live in fear, it affects everyone in your circle. Pay attention to how they react to your negativity and open up to the
possibility that you need to change your self-destructive ways.
Trust Yourself
When I’m giving my readings I absolutely HAVE TO TRUST the information coming through from Spirit. If I start second-guessing what I’m seeing, hearing and feeling, there’s no way I’d be giving accurate readings. How would you feel if your advisor were doing that? You would be less likely to trust them, wouldn’t you? Especially since it would sound as though they don’t know what they’re doing. The same goes for you. If you second-guess your first instinct, Spirit will figure you don‘t know what you‘re doing, so guess what? You will be proven wrong by getting a life lesson. Then you’ll kick yourself later. Trust yourself, it’s so worth it in the end.
Let Go Of Fear
"I fear nothing."
These are just prime examples of the personal fear busting affirmations I do on a daily basis. I’m going to tell you a little story.
When I started doing readings on a professional level, I had a full-time job working for a financial advisor. It was a stable job with perks and bonuses. I knew the minute I started doing readings online that this was the path I agreed to. I was terribly unhappy at my job and was aching to leave. I did end up leaving a good 7 months later; however, it was a very long and painful process.
I got to the point where I was getting physically ill on my way to work. Obviously it was Spirit’s way of kicking my ass. Why wouldn‘t I leave if I was so miserable? I was afraid to take the chance of leaving a stable job for a commission based career, even though I knew that I would be much happier. Of course at the time I was contemplating leaving, the economy was in the dumps.
Finally I left and let me tell you, I do feel as though I’m a success story. All I had to do was bite the bullet, trust in God and roll out. When I told my boss I was leaving, I was crying uncontrollably. It was as if a ton of bricks had just been lifted off my shoulders. I am so happy now that I over came my fear of failure in this field.
It really was easy, now that I look back and I’m kicking myself for not doing this earlier, but what’s done is done. The best way to get rid of fear is to tell your ego to shut up and just DO IT ANYWAY.
Don't Allow Fear To Limit Your Growth
Be aware of the negative energy you’re spreading around when you do this. Nobody wants to be around a person who is always so depressing and fearful. Not a single person would be inclined to help you either. Don’t allow fear to control your life. Take back the reins, get off your booty and make things happen. I guarantee you will begin to see clearly and be ecstatic to find out who you REALLY are. You will then be able to reach heights you never knew existed, let alone think were possible.
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