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A C E F
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A B C D E F
We have to start at A to get to Z WITHOUT skipping over the steps in between. Most of the time, the strongest lessons presented to you are a result of karmic imbalance from previous lifetimes. In order for the soul to progress to the next level in its evolution, it must resolve issues from the past. When one door closes, another opens.
The soul must create karmic balance in order to put an end to the cycle of life and fully evolve. This is why history often repeats itself. Most souls do not learn the entire lesson the first time around and simultaneously creates more karmic imbalance, therefore having the need to keep returning to Earth in future lifetimes. For example:
You were an alcoholic and abusive toward the members of your immediate family, specifically your daughter. Your entire life revolved around YOUR issues and what YOU desired.
The above situation created some negative Karma. Before incarnating in your next lifetime your soul has chosen to find balance with that situation. So in the up and coming lifetime, you’ve chosen to be a child of an abusive, alcoholic parent so that your soul could experience the other end of the spectrum.
A lot of times we create negative karma in the present or past and can clean it up in the current lifetime. We don’t always have to come back again to re-live a situation. For example:
In high school you stole your best friend’s boy/girlfriend by saying nasty things behind their back to sabotage their relationship. You end up dating that person and the relationship comes to an end a few years later. Little did you know that your new best friend and your boy/girlfriend were cheating.
Now you’ve experienced the other side of what you did a few years earlier; thus cleaning up the negative karma you created.
It is YOUR responsibility to acknowledge that lesson and carry it to the next level. If you choose to ignore the signs and lessons, you WILL experience the SAME situation again, just in a different form or even in another area of your life. This time, the situation and lesson will hit you harder; causing more unnecessary pain that could’ve been prevented.
Keep in mind that the purpose in experiencing and clearing negative karma is to help your soul evolve. In life there is always a choice and obviously your soul chose these specific events and lessons to complete in effort to contribute to its evolution and God’s master plan.
When the soul splits, that part will choose a life path based upon the karma it is responsible for clearing up. This is why the possibility of meeting and carrying a relationship with one is RARE. If everyone met and married a Soul Mate, there wouldn’t be much of an opportunity to clear karma and the soul would have to reincarnate many more times than necessary.
Those souls who choose to NOT split apart will do this for one of two reasons. Either they chose to complete all the karma planned for that lifetime alone or it’s their last incarnation in the physical world.
When meeting a PLC, you may feel as though you’re having a deja vu experience (the feeling that you have seen/met this person or been in that situation before). Just because you feel that way DOES NOT mean that you were "meant" to be together romantically. Chances are, you’re NOT meant to have a lifelong partnership with that person, you’ve just spiritually contracted a specific Karmic Event with them.
A Karmic Event is the actual situation that went sour between you and that other person’s soul. Again, the reason for this event is so that both souls find balance in effort to evolve properly. Most likely the current events(s) will be a mirror image of the situation(s) the souls experienced in their last incarnation together.
I have seen and heard of many situations in which two people who are in a relationship based on a PLC are miserable. There is so much back and forth, it’s ridiculous! The paths are rarely in alignment, therefore creating more imbalances. Most of the time, people who are in romantic relationships based on a PLC truly believe that it’s not Karma; it’s destiny. I’ll give you a tiny taste of the bone, just for argument’s sake.
In a way, it was destined that you met and maybe even started a relationship with that person, HOWEVER, it’s for the sole purpose in LEARNING A SPECIFIC LESSON...NOT to carry a lifelong partnership with them. The ONLY reason it’s destiny is because you have a spiritual contract with that person to clean up your act.
Just because you have a spiritual contract with someone does not mean the contract lasts forever. Think about what development (or construction) contractors do. Once the job is done, they roll out. They don’t stay on the property and keep building when it‘s not necessary or they‘re not getting paid. They welcome the next contract in order to build their business. The same goes for PLC’s.
So many people hang on to that PLC romantically because they feel the "connection", but keep in mind that we’re connected to a lot of people. As a matter of fact, I truly believe we’re all connected like the construction paper links you made in kindergarten for Christmas. If this is your situation and you feel comfortable beating your head against the wall, fighting for something that will only come back to bite you in the ass, be my guest. Don’t ever say that I didn’t warn you though.
You can also meet a PLC and NOT have a spiritual contract with them. These are what I call "fly by the night connections". You may meet a PLC and have the same symptoms as you would if you were spiritually contracted. The only difference is that you just have a "moment" with them and nothing more. They’re in and out of your life faster than you can say "I want you".
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