The Law of Attraction may seem complicated to most people, but the concept is quite simple: "What you put out to the Universe, you get back". Life is but a series of choices leading to lessons in order for our souls to evolve. There are no mistakes and everything happens for a reason. In this article we're going to discuss the correct ways to attract the type of person and romantic relationship you want.

Men & Women Are The Same:
A simple ideal most people do not realize is that men and women are exactly the same. We all desire one thing out of life and that's to be happy. What constitutes happiness for EACH PERSON may be different, but in the end we all want to be filled with love, joy, serenity and live an abundant lifestyle. The way each person goes about finding a partner is different as well. Think of shopping, for example.

Some people go to the mall knowing exactly what shirt they want. They go into the store looking for just that shirt. When they find it, they try it on for size and if it fits, they'll purchase it. If when they get home and the shirt doesn't match the outfit they chose, they'll return it.

Then you have the people who aren't exactly sure what type of shirt they're looking for. They'll go into a store hoping that one will catch their eye and they'll circle the store until they find something that does. Once they find it, they'll go in the dressing room, try it on, model it a bit and in their mind start picturing this shirt with other outfits that it could possibly go with.

You've got those who buy a shirt that looks and feels good at the time, but they believe that can't go out in public ever wearing a shirt more than once so after they've worn it, they go buy a new one.

Lastly, you've got those people who go into the store, grab any old shirt that looks good on the rack, buy it, take it home then it just sits on the floor until they feel like putting it on.

The above analogies do not cover everyone's process of finding a partner, but it puts into perspective of the different ways people do this. Notice I didn't say "Men do this" and "Women do that". People are people.

Speaking Into Being:
You need to align yourself with a person who compliments your style naturally, without prompting or forcing them to become what you want or something they will never be. When it comes to speaking a romantic relationship into being, there are many misconceptions and we'd like to clear that up right now.

1. You can't visualize the exact person you want and manifest their personality or the way they treat you.

2. No matter what you say, if that person isn't who you want them to be, they'll never become that when you want. If they do make changes, it's on their own accord and in their own time.

3. If you're looking for marriage, you can't tell God when you want it and expect the result to suit only your needs.

Here are the appropriate ways to manifest a romantic relationship.

* BE VERY SPECIFIC, IN A GENERAL WAY *
You can speak or write a specific list regarding the TYPE of person you're looking for. Remember, you can't just say, "I want Bob to love me". You're setting the standard of the type of person you want to attract, who is what you want BY NATURE.

You absolutely have to be specific because you will get exactly what you SAY you want. I was going to a club with my friend Matt and I thought I'd test this whole concept of speaking into being. I said, "God, thank you for allowing someone to hit on me tonight". Well, about a half hour after we arrived to the club, I got hit on; BY A WOMAN. Opps...I forgot to mention straight male, LOL! This just shows me that even though God KNOWS I'm straight, all I said was that I wanted to be hit on and I got exactly what I said I wanted.

Here are some examples of what you could say:

My partner has to be a straight male figure looking to be in a committed relationship.
This man must be a good father and looking to have some (or more) children.
He has to have the same goals, values, morals and ambition for success as I.

You can also manifest what you DO NOT want in a partner in effort to narrow your options down. Examples are as follows:

I do not want a man/woman who had a "white picket fence" upbringing.
I do not want a man/woman who is insecure, emotionally demanding or controlling.
I do not want a man/woman who is not willing to accept what I do for a living.
I do not want a man/woman who will try to mold me into their perfect mate.
My future partner must not be shallow or self-absorbed.

Predictions & Prospects:
You wouldn't believe how many people call me back just to tell me that the man or woman I've predicted did appear, but they weren't what they were looking for. This happens all the time. I've experienced this myself. If you're calling a psychic and asking about who's coming in, that predicted person is coming in just as they are and they may or may not be what you want in a romantic partner. The only way to change that is by speaking your personal preferences into being. Trust me, after you do this and wait a month, you'll notice the type of people coming in will be more in your league.

Keep in mind that after you've manifested and people start showing up, you most likely will not hit the jackpot in the first round. The first prospect will have mostly what you're looking for but there will still be holes in the connection. This happens because God wants you to see that manifesting DOES work. With the first round, you'll also be learning more about what you don't want as well, then you can add that to your list. As new prospects come in, each person will be more and more what you want naturally and eventually, you'll find "the one" that works best for you and compliments your style the most.

Remember, God isn't a meany and won't just send you ONE option that you must squeeze the life out of so you don't lose the opportunity to be happy. That's why when getting a reading from me about a specific person, I'm always seeing new and/or improved options coming into the picture. The more open you are, the wider your path becomes, allowing more diverse options to enter your life.