I have other articles in the Psychic Stuff  section for choosing a psychic, predictions and timing, but this one offers suggestions on how to word your questions to get the clearest answers from me and/or your chosen advisor.

Be Prepared For Your Reading

* Your state of mind:   
Please make sure you are in an alert and relaxed state. Do not call any advisor screaming, crying or ready to fall asleep. It's very difficult to tune in while this is happening.

* Have a list of specific questions:   
Create a list of specific questions and prioritize from the most important issues down to the least. You can ask a specific question without giving background information. If you're general, you'll get a general answer.

You ask: "What is going on with John/Jen?"
My answer: "John/Jen is really stressed out with work right now".

  Your advisor will tell you what is going on in his/her life in general, but most likely won't include how he/she thinks or feels about you romantically. If you want to know what someone's romantic intent is, how they feel about you and/or what they think of you, ask the following:

"Does John/Jen want to be in a romantic relationship with me?"
"How does John/Jen feel about me romantically?"
"How does John/Jen view me as a person?"
"What are John/Jen's intentions with me relationship wise?"
"What type of a relationship will John/Jen and I have in the future?"

I may ask you to clarify your question or I may just do it for you.

* Take good notes:
  Make sure you have your questions written down with plenty of space below each one for the answer(s) and any clarity questions you may have. If you're getting a reading with me, I don't have a problem with you recording the session if it's easier than writing things down, but if you do this with other advisors, you should ask their permission.

  While getting a reading, it's very important that you write the answers down exactly the way they're worded. Do NOT put your own spin on it. This way is best in effort to prevent misinterpretation. If you're getting a reading from me, I will let you know if I'm unclear on how to interpret a clairvoyant visual and I'll ask you to just write down what I'm seeing so that I don't waste your time or money.

An example of a misinterpretation is as follows:

I say this: You are going to have 3 options this summer in your love life. Joe/Jill (the one you know now) will be phased out by July because it's just sexual, a new person will enter by mid to late July and John/Jen (the person from your past) will also re-enter at that time. I see you will be in a committed relationship by mid September.

You hear this: Joe/Jill is leaving my life by July, I have a new option coming in and I won't be in a relationship with the person I'm dwelling on (John/Jen) in September.

What I meant was this: I wasn't told who you're going to commit to in September, just that Joe/Jill won't be it. It COULD be the new option OR John/Jen. Let it go and cross that bridge when you get to it.

FYI: Spirit has a tendency to make specific predictions, but leave out bits of data so that the client doesn't dwell on a specific person or event, enabling them to let go and LIVE in the now.

Important Guidelines To Follow

* Be realistic in your expectations while getting a reading.  
If you are expecting me to tell you just what you want to hear to make you "feel better", I am not the right person to call. If you're expecting to be blown away by every single thing that comes out of your advisor's mouth, then you'll be disappointed. There are some things that cannot be validated at the time of your call, especially if you're asking about the future.

* Do not call an advisor just to discredit another one.  
I will not change my answers because another advisor said something different. Psychic surfing could be part of the reason you're getting mixed messages to begin with.

* Always use your intuition while getting a reading.  
I do not expect you to agree with me all the time. I also believe in free will. If you disagree with the advice given, always do what you want, however, if you do so and you're not happy with the result, your advisor cannot be accountable for your actions.

* Do not call a psychic who is out of your price range  
If you cannot afford to call me, DON'T. Psychic readings aren't a necessity in life like paying your rent/mortgage and putting food on the table. It's also best to not choose an advisor based upon their price.

* In choosing a psychic advisor, do your research  
Always read the advisor's listing in its entirety and check their feedback before calling. If you feel lead to them then call. If for some reason you get a negative vibe, don't call. If the reader has way too many negative remarks, stay away. If they have a balance between both then they're probably more realistic as we can't please everyone. These days, most of us online advisors have websites and blogs. Check those out as well. You will get a really good idea of the advisor's belief system, personality and style.

* Do not live your life based upon psychic predictions  
Getting a reading is great, but it's unhealthy to be checking your notes everyday, waiting for an outcome and not living. Predictions are made based upon the client NOT sitting on their butt and being a hermit. Logically, nothing new will come into your life if all you're doing is calling psychics and locking yourself up with your computer.

* Have fun with it all!  
If you call a psychic for the hell of it and are using the service in moderation instead of a form of therapy, readings can be a blast. I think it's best to mix it up and add some questions that are silly. I also believe that having an up beat, humorous attitude opens the channels to the Spirit World much easier.